by Hanna Mordekhai
In the wake of COVID-19, the past five years have seen a profound shift in black-tie culture. The rise of micro-weddings, destination celebrations, and multi-day events has reshaped the way we approach special occasions. Today, creating a memorable event is less about adhering to rigid traditions and more about infusing culture, experience, and aesthetics into every detail.
With this new perspective on celebrations comes an equally transformative approach to eveningwear. The standard rules of formal attire now take a backseat to the art of self-expression and individuality. Guests and hosts alike are no longer content to play it safe; instead, they embrace bold, head-turning choices that make a statement.
See-Through
While this trend seems to be reserved for only the boldest—and, well, Kendall Jenner-looking ladies of the world—it has actually trickled down to everyone, even us normal people on Earth. Whether you’re having a full-on intentional nip-slip moment or showing your shoulders beneath lace or organza, the past couple of years have challenged the idea that showing more skin means being less formal. Nowadays, it seems like slips are less classy than midriffs, no?
Tapping Into Cultures and Eras
Ballrooms were once a sea of uniformity: black ties and Hervé Léger dresses as far as the eye could see. But times have changed, and now the ballroom has become a stage for individuality, celebrating influences from across cultures, periods, and aesthetics. From channeling a breezy, beachy vibe in a Johanna Ortiz silk-printed gown to donning a vintage Patou sequin dress that screams Gatsby-era glam, the rules are simple—there are none.
It’s fashionable to explore, whether that means embracing your heritage, evoking a bygone era, or simply taking inspiration from the endless rabbit holes of TikTok. Eveningwear is no longer just about fitting in; it’s about standing out, curating a look that tells your story, and proving that the best dressed in the room might just be the best historian or anthropologist in disguise.
Out-of-Place Accessories: The Chic Art of Not Caring Too Much
Someone recently told me a quote that stuck with me: “It’s quite unfashionable to care too much about your looks.” The more I’ve thought about it, the more it seems to reflect a broader societal shift—one that celebrates effortless cool over painstaking perfection. Accessories that, on the surface, have no business being paired with luxury watches or couture gowns are now making bold appearances in high-fashion settings.
Take weddings, for instance: it’s practically tradition for brides and bridesmaids to swap their heels for sneakers the moment the dancing begins. And what used to be reserved for middle school parties—think glow-in-the-dark necklaces and oversized sunglasses—is now popping up at formal soirées. In today’s world, the ultimate statement isn’t about looking flawless; it’s about finding playful, unexpected ways to enjoy the moment.
This new approach to accessorizing shows more than just style—it signals a well-rounded, down-to-earth attitude. Because what could be chicer than rocking a Cartier stack while proving you’re not too precious to toss on a pair of neon shades or a pair of Converse? The perfect accessory these days is less about elegance and more about ease, reminding everyone that the most fashionable thing you can wear is your ability to let loose.